Top 5 signs you’re addicted to your mobile phone

addicted to your mobile phoneIt’s com­mon and sen­si­ble to own a smart­phone nowa­days as it is very much inte­gral to our way of life. Unfor­tu­nate­ly, with the func­tions and attrac­tions it pro­vides us, it’s easy to fall into the trap of addic­tion. If you’re not sure if you’re one of these peo­ple, check out the list to con­firm if you’re addict­ed to your mobile phone.

Top 1 sign you’re addicted to your mobile phone: You accidentally leave your phone at home, so you can’t concentrate at work or school.

How many times has this hap­pened to you? You know exact­ly where your phone is so there’s no rea­son to wor­ry, but still, you can’t con­cen­trate. You can’t help but think that maybe a hun­dred and one peo­ple are try­ing to con­tact you and you can’t wait to final­ly get your phone back. Unfor­tu­nate­ly, some­times, you get home to find that no one has sent you a text or phoned you. So, relax!

Top 2 sign you’re addicted to your mobile phone: When you want to know something — whatever it is, you automatically look it up on your phone.
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You are extreme­ly depen­dent on your mobile phone. It is your cam­era, mp3 play­er, news­pa­per, pri­ma­ry means to con­tact the world, favourite game, cal­en­dar, list of things to do, TV, inter­net, map, and so much more. For you, your mobile phone is the most reli­able gad­get in the world, and you can’t imag­ine life with­out it.

Top 3 sign you’re addicted to your mobile phone: You constantly check your phone for updates or notifications.

Your fin­ger just can’t stop touch­ing your smart­phone to check for updates or noti­fi­ca­tions. The moment you see one, even if you’re in the mid­dle of some­thing impor­tant or your hav­ing lunch with your friends or fam­i­ly, your hands will car­ry on click­ing until you see or read the com­plete post or message.

Top 4 sign you’re addicted to your mobile phone: You have a headache, and yet you still read articles, look at photos and watch videos on your phone.
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Your eyes are telling you that you’ve had enough screen time for the day, which may have been caused by exces­sive com­put­er use or TV view­ing, but still, you can’t put your phone away. You asso­ciate using your phone to some­thing relax­ing, so even if its bright­ness isn’t help­ing your eyes and head to recov­er, you’re still on your phone.

Top 5 sign you’re addicted to your mobile phone: When you need to take note of something, you either add a note on your phone, take a photo of the words, or leave a voice reminder by recording your voice.

addicted to your mobile phoneYou think writ­ing is so passé now. When you are shown some infor­ma­tion you need to take note, you add a note on your phone. If the infor­ma­tion has over five words, you take a pho­to of it. If you need to remind your­self to do some­thing and adding a note would take over 3 min­utes, you would rather record your voice and lis­ten to it after.

If you got at least 3 of the five signs, you are addict­ed to your mobile phone — and I bet you know it. 🙂

Top 5 things to bring overseas if you’re emigrating

bring overseas if emigratingYou have at least a 30-kg bag­gage allowance, and although all your friends and fam­i­ly would like you to take some­thing that will remind you of your life in your home coun­try, you need to be prac­ti­cal and not take every­thing with you. The key thing to remem­ber is you may be emi­grat­ing, but this doesn’t mean you’ll nev­er come back. Plus, with tech­nol­o­gy as your best friend, there’s no rea­son why you can’t con­stant­ly be in touch with your friends and fam­i­ly. Here are the top 5 things to bring over­seas if you’re emigrating.

Top 1 thing to bring overseas if you’re emigrating: Identity documents plus evidence of qualifications, certificates and training

Aside from your pass­port which you will need at the air­port, make sure you have orig­i­nal copies of all your oth­er iden­ti­ty doc­u­ments, and evi­dence of qual­i­fi­ca­tions, cer­tifi­cates and tran­scripts, as well as tran­scripts. Scan all of them and keep them on your lap­top. Save these doc­u­ments as PDF files, not as JPEGs as the for­mer is eas­i­er to open from any computer.

Top 2 thing to bring overseas if you’re emigrating: Suitable clothes and shoes for every season

bring overseas if emigratingThe quan­ti­ty of cloth­ing isn’t all that’s rel­e­vant due to the chang­ing sea­sons. Make sure that you have the appro­pri­ate kinds of clothes that will help you sur­vive the cold win­ters and hot sum­mers. I packed some clothes, but they weren’t the right ones. Even when I wore lay­ers of clothes in win­ter, I still felt cold to the bone. If I had invest­ed in a good coat and ther­mals before mov­ing to Aus­tralia, I would not have suf­fered as much. It’s the same for shoes and acces­sories. I don’t care much for fash­ion, but feel­ing com­fort­able in every sea­son is some­thing I value.

Top 3 thing to bring overseas if you’re emigrating: Mobile phone and laptop

If you have a spare phone, take it with you so can use it for your Aussie SIM and you can still main­tain your Fil­ipino line for a month or so. Even­tu­al­ly, you’ll give up your Fil­ipino SIM and just use Skype or Face­time to con­tact your fam­i­ly. If you have a lap­top, bring it with you because many things are done online in Aus­tralia, for exam­ple, apply­ing for some jobs, keep­ing in touch with employ­ers, apply­ing for police checks, pay­ing for toll fees, trans­fer­ring mon­ey, pay­ing bills, etc. Just a gen­tle reminder: Don’t for­get the pow­er cable and charg­er of these gadgets.

Top 4 thing to bring overseas if you’re emigrating: Something that will help you get over homesickness

bring if you're emigratingYou can go through a chal­leng­ing first few months. Some peo­ple get home­sick as soon as their plane lands, oth­ers enjoy the new­ness of the expe­ri­ence before get­ting lone­ly, while oth­ers just man­age to plod on with­out extreme­ly miss­ing any­thing from their home­land. To play it safe, bring some­thing that might help you com­bat home­sick­ness. You can bring some pho­tos, some Fil­ipino music saved on your lap­top or phone, some ted­dies and if you fan­cy cook­ing, some Fil­ipino mix­es so you can cook sini­gang, pal­abok and caldereta.

Top 5 thing to bring overseas if you’re emigraing: Credit card and some cash

Make sure to bring a cred­it card that has a VISA or Mas­ter­card logo on it, just in case you run out of cash and you haven’t received your Aus­tralian deb­it or cred­it card. Please note: Bring only some cash. There is a max­i­mum lim­it of AUD$10,000 that you can bring into Aus­tralia. Oth­er­wise, you’ll have to declare it. More­over, I’m sure you’ll agree that it’s not safe to car­ry that much mon­ey in your trav­el­ing bags.

bring overseas if emigratingWhen I moved to Aus­tralia, I unfor­tu­nate­ly brought more than these top 5 things — I had a pil­low, bed­sheets and pil­low­cas­es, a saucepan and skil­let, cut­lery, two plates, a glass, heaps of cos­met­ics and toi­letries, books, etc. Don’t make the same mis­take. Pack wise­ly and enjoy the adventure!

Top 5 reasons why you should complain

I don’t com­plain when I’m in the wrong. I only com­plain when I know I’m in the right or if I feel anoth­er per­son was treat­ed badly.

ComplainI com­plain. I’m a squeaky wheel, and I usu­al­ly get the grease. I com­plain about the ser­vice I’m giv­en and what oth­ers are giv­en. I take some time out to write a respect­ful email to the com­pa­ny or even the CEO if there’s a need to esca­late the issue. I’ve com­plained to two air­lines, a cou­ple of med­ical prac­tices, a cof­fee shop and a drug­store. My suc­cess rate is quite high. I’ve received favourable results and perks on most occasions.

Top 1 reason why you should complain: You might get your way.


Get­ting your way is the best result you can ever get. Just recent­ly I com­plained about the inflex­i­bil­i­ty and unfair­ness of a famous trav­el agency. It was a strug­gle, and I didn’t think I’d win, but after a few exchanges of emails and copy­ing in the CEO, I final­ly got my way. Oooh! There’s noth­ing like win­ning a bat­tle against a giant company.

Top 2 reason why you should complain: You can help a company improve their service.Complain

Com­pa­nies need to get feed­back from cus­tomers to improve their ser­vice. Being tol­er­ant all the time doesn’t help the com­pa­ny at all. They need to know that they’ve done some­thing wrong and how it’s affect­ed you. Think of it this way — some­times, you need to tell peo­ple that you’re offend­ed by what they’ve done for them to apol­o­gise and make it up to you. If you keep mum about it, they’ll think everything’s okay. As they say, igno­rance is bliss.

Top 3 reason why you should complain: You can help other people.

When you com­plain, you may be com­plain­ing for the many hun­dreds of indi­vid­u­als who are in the same unfor­tu­nate sit­u­a­tion as you but haven’t done any­thing. Their lack of action may be because they’re too busy, too polite, too lazy or not as assertive as you. Con­se­quent­ly, your win is a win for many peo­ple as well.

Top 4 reason why you should complain: You can protect other people who might get hurt.


Think of the future. If it’s hap­pened to you, there’s a huge chance it can hap­pen to some­one else in the future. Think of a para­sol that near­ly hit you because the cafe staff didn’t plant it secure­ly on the ground. If you say some­thing about it, the staff might find a way to fix the prob­lem. If you don’t say some­thing about it, some­one might get injured when the next gust of wind comes.

Top 5 reason why you should complain: You can get some perks.

complainTo be hon­est, I get sat­is­fac­tion from know­ing that some­one from a big com­pa­ny lis­tened to me and solved my prob­lem. If they throw in some perks, e.g. dis­counts, gift cards or some free­bies, who am I to complain?

Com­plain­ing should not be just seen as an act of inso­lence that’s done just to cause dis­rup­tion and has­sle cus­tomer ser­vice peo­ple. With the best inten­tions and if done with cour­tesy, a com­plaint can be trans­for­ma­tive — not only for the com­plainant but also for the com­pa­ny and cus­tomers as well. So, yes, it’s more than okay to complain.

Top 5 Confusing Filipino-English phrases

Confusing Filipino-English phrasesYou’ve moved to Aus­tralia and you’re thank­ful that Eng­lish is your sec­ond lan­guage or your oth­er first lan­guage. You, how­ev­er, have noticed that there are some words that, even if they’re in Eng­lish, aren’t under­stood by native Eng­lish speak­ers. (I used to say ‘open line’ until I found out that it’s not a term used in Aus­tralia. Ha!) Read the list of con­fus­ing Fil­ipino-Eng­lish phras­es that Aussies may not under­stand, so you’ll know what I’m talk­ing about.

Confusing Filipino-English phrasesTop 1 Confusing Filipino-English phrase: Comfort room, more specifically C.R.

In oth­er coun­tries, a com­fort room or C.R. is called pub­lic toi­let, restroom, bath­room, or wash­room. If you say ‘C.R.’, there’s a 1% chance Aussies will under­stand you. You have a bet­ter chance of get­ting direc­tions to the near­est toi­lets if you say ‘com­fort room’.

Top 2 Confusing Filipino-English phrase: Open the light or open the computer

Instead of ‘open’, say ‘turn on’ or ‘switch on’ the light or the com­put­er. I under­stand that the con­fu­sion stems from the trans­la­tion into Taga­log or Fil­ipino of ‘turn on’, ‘switch on’ and ‘open’ which is ‘bukas’. Because ‘open’ is a more com­mon word, it’s so easy for us Fil­ipinos to make the mis­take of say­ing ‘open’ even if we mean ‘turn on’ or ‘switch on’. If you say ‘open the light or com­put­er’, you’ll be under­stood any­where in the world, but it’s best to use the cor­rect verb phrase to be a bet­ter communicator.

Confusing Filipino-English phrasesTop 3 Confusing Filipino-English phrase: Open line

I remem­ber going to a mobile phone and acces­sories shop telling a sales assis­tant I’d like to get an ‘open line’ phone, so I can change telecom­mu­ni­ca­tions ser­vice providers and not wor­ry. I’ll nev­er for­get the look of con­fu­sion on the poor guy’s face. Thank­ful­ly, my friend man­aged to deci­pher the code and feed me the cor­rect ter­mi­nol­o­gy — unlocked phone. Haha! She said the guy prob­a­bly thought I want­ed help set­ting up a phone dat­ing account.

Top 4 Confusing Filipino-English phrase: Copy furnish

Copy fur­nish sounds so pro­fes­sion­al but archa­ic. Aussies will under­stand you, but you’ll be noticed in a way that peo­ple who come in with a portable CD play­er get noticed. Instead of say­ing ‘copy fur­nish me’, say ‘car­bon copy or CC me’ or ‘copy me in’.

Confusing Filipino-English phrasesTop 5 Confusing Filipino-English phrase: State of calamity

Accord­ing to The Lawyers Post, a State of Calami­ty is defined under Sec­tion 3 of RA 10121, known as the “Philip­pine Dis­as­ter Risk Reduc­tion and Man­age­ment Act of 2010,” as “a con­di­tion involv­ing mass casu­al­ty and/or major dam­ages to prop­er­ty, dis­rup­tion of means of liveli­hoods, roads and nor­mal way of life of peo­ple in the affect­ed areas as a result of the occur­rence of nat­ur­al or human-induced haz­ard.” Only Fil­ipinos use this term, so don’t be sur­prised if Aussies give you a ques­tion­ing look if this term slips out. The rest of the world refers to a state of a coun­try after being struck by a nat­ur­al or human-trig­gered dis­as­ter as a state of emer­gency, no mat­ter how extreme­ly calami­tous it is.

The longer you live in Aus­tralia or any coun­try with Eng­lish as its native lan­guage, the bet­ter you’ll be at pick­ing up real world Eng­lish, and this will help you avoid using Eng­lish terms that are only under­stood by Fil­ipinos. I hope this list of con­fus­ing Fil­ipino-Eng­lish phras­es will help you adapt quick­er in the Land Down Under. Oi! Oi!


If you know a con­fus­ing Fil­ipino-Eng­lish term sim­i­lar to the words above, please share it here. Thanks! 🙂

Top 5 Small Talk Topics

small talkIt’s Mon­day again, and there’s a chance you’ll bump into your boss on your way to work, share a lift with him or her, or queue up to buy cof­fee along­side him or her. If you’re friends with your boss, it isn’t prob­lem. How­ev­er, if your rela­tion­ship with your boss is one that’s extreme­ly hier­ar­chi­cal, the thought of being with­in a metre from him or her is extreme­ly uncom­fort­able and daunt­ing. The key is to go to work loaded with small talk topics.

Small talk topic 1: Weekend activities

small talkAfter the usu­al pleas­antries, you can launch the ques­tion “How was your week­end?”. Make sure you have an answer to this your­self because if your boss isn’t in the mood to share about his or her week­end, then you’ll have to do most of the talk­ing. Remem­ber that the week­end activ­i­ties don’t need to be excit­ing or inter­est­ing. As long as you can remem­ber what you did and hope­ful­ly be able to cite a high­light, you should be okay.

Small talk topic 2: Weather

It’s great if you live in Mel­bourne as this is a fan­tas­tic talk­ing point in this city. Don’t wor­ry, though, as talk­ing about the weath­er is a sav­ing top­ic any­where in the world. Hot, cold, just right, cool, warm, change­able, freez­ing, windy, snow­ing, rain­ing, name it. You can talk about the cur­rent weath­er, the weath­er over the week­end and the effects on your life, or the weath­er forecast.

Small talk topic 3: Traffic
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In a city where the flow of traf­fic affects people’s lives, this can be a good top­ic for small talk. You can also talk about road­works, acci­dents, or track works as this can affect the increase in vehi­cles on the roads, too.

Small talk topic 4: Children

If you’re ready to share a bit of your life, you can talk about your chil­dren. This works extreme­ly well if your boss has a child as well. A bit of infor­ma­tion from your end can be used a spring­board to push your boss to talk about his or her kids. With a bit of encour­age­ment, all you’ll need to do is ask what, where, when, why, who and why in response to every bit of sto­ry, and you’re off the hook.

small talkSmall talk top­ic 5: Pets

If your boss has a pet, ask about it. You can steer the con­ver­sa­tion to this sub­ject by men­tion­ing about your pet, a friend’s pet or an imag­i­nary pet. If your boss is a pri­vate per­son and not every­one knows about his or her pet, don’t just men­tion it out of the blue as this might creep him or her out.

Take a deep breath. There’s only a 50% chance you’ll be in this awk­ward sit­u­a­tion with your boss, and if ever the oth­er 50% emerged vic­to­ri­ous, with these five small talk top­ics up your sleeve, you’ll be alright.